Loneliness

You could be in the middle of a concert and the feeling of loneliness is something that can absolutely tackle you. We all feel it. Some of us are feeling it right now, some in the past, and for others it’s waiting.

That phase of life comes and goes. Being in a new environment triggers the feeling of loneliness to sprout which can be an incredible thing but also a VERY degrading feeling.

Being alone can teach you different methods you can spend time with yourself. It can show you things which you never knew about yourself and develop some new skills and come to realizations.

But on the flip side, it also can plummet your self-confidence and sky-rocket your self-doubt. Feeling like there isn’t anyone around whom you can feely speak to, casually ask to grab lunch or dinner with - especially when coming from an environment where you were able to - makes the situation 10x worse.

You miss that old environment, the place you were comfortable in. The people whom you used to be around. Your best friends, you wish it was easy to hang out like before rather than needing to travel hours or take a flight.

But in this new and uncomfortable environment; you can explore, see what’s for you, not for you, which people whom you get that energy that you are and wanting to give off. Remember, you were always uncomfortable before you found comfort.

Sometimes during those loneliness stages you find yourself turn into a completely different person. If you’re an extrovert, it’s definitely hits you like a truck. You’re like, dude, what happened? 😂

Main point is that it’s completely natural - 110% normal to have these phases in life. It’s all part of it - all part of that change which can lead to a lot of great stuff!

Loneliness is one of those things which if you go through it, you’ll reach to your goal and destination quicker than if you go around it.

If you’re in that phase right now, trust me you’re not alone. There are hundreds of people who are feeling lost, lonely, just all the emotions. It’s all part of the process and you’ll get through it. You’ve got this, I promise. This too shall pass <3